Yes, I did not have any contact with him for 45 days and he views that as "pursuing". My ex seemed so much more rational, now he is regressing big time.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11