Thank you Beatrice, Snodderly, Cadet and Kimmerz for your thoughts on my last post.
After reading and absorbing what you all had to say I've decided you're right and I'm not even going to mention it to him. There would be nothing to gain from it. If this is what it has come down to after 27 years of M, then so be it. I can't control any of it, just how I react to it.
Hard to believe that on May 1, it will be 30 years since we were married. Even with H being gone as long as he has, it's still sometimes hard to believe that we ended up like this.