well, this all started in oct (so about 6 months now) is when he first brought up the idea that things were not going well. based upon what he said i tried to correct those things, that is when the too little too late comment came.
h stated he should have left last summer, that is around the time the interest of the ow came to be (i believe). overall m was good and h is was sane person as of late not sure what to expect.
i will start with gal and try to move forward as there are many positives in us all. as this is 2nd m for both of us, i have already expressed to h that d was not an option and h could always come back. with that said, the ball is in h's corner and yes in the event h does return it will be then the hard work starts.