Important info: State laws here are no-fault divorce, where conduct is not considered when dividing property and children (that's more graphic and true than the law's language). So, I still agree with W that custody should be two-week turns. Also, Mondays will always be Mommy evenings, and Wednesdays will always be mine. But I don't think I will agree to birds-nesting unless for a short duration (maybe a month) it really makes sense, and only if/when D is official. Until then, I think that I am going to stay put. Please help me think through this and how to communicate this change in direction. On 180s, I am playing soccer tonight and I've been playing my cello some. More importantly, I saw my C this morning and I've been going to 12step groups. It is time to change.
