Where to next?

[mishka422]

I certainly wouldn't agree to it without a lot of talking about it and counseling. That would be imperative to me. It's not anywhere close to happening right now and that is just fine with me.

I like the way you worded that OT. That is exactly it. An exclusive romantic relationship which is open to a more permanent commitment. That sounds exactly like what I was asking for but didn't have the right words to express.

I don't think we are on different pages now that I've given it time to sink in to him. He hasn't come out and said the words but he has given me actions that show he is not thinking of us as temporary. That makes me feel a little better.