So are you afraid that if you take these actions and they don't work than you will somehow have failed? Or that you will find out something that you don't like? For instance if h doesn't respond positively to your DB attemps than you might conclude that he isn't interested in R? Maybe you are not ready to do these things and need to be in a wait and see pattern for a little longer?
Mimi
M:37; H:37; M:10 years;T:13 years;no kids. Bomb ("I love you, but don't feel things for you I should":1/08/12 Separated (H living with various friends:1/18/12 Separated (H rented his own apartment:3/4/12
