Wendy, Your might want to remind your h the next time he mentions his hard earned money that you are working as well. That what you get from him is paying you for what you are doing around the home, etc. Besides, you aren't getting paid top dollar to take care of the home, him, the grocery shopping as well as fixing/repairing other things. If he had to pay you a full time salary, he wouldn't be able to afford you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.