Ro, I think your patience will pay off in the end. I hate being patient, too, but whenever I have an urge to "hurry things along," I tell myself, "think of the long game." You will likely know when you are ready to resolve things on your own, one way or another, if there is no movement on h's end. But it doesn't sound like you or the sitch are at that point, yet. In the meantime, get as busy with your GAL as possible and try not to dwell on your h's every word and action.
Which actions from your DB coach are you hesitant to do?
Mimi
M:37; H:37; M:10 years;T:13 years;no kids. Bomb ("I love you, but don't feel things for you I should":1/08/12 Separated (H living with various friends:1/18/12 Separated (H rented his own apartment:3/4/12
