Don’t worry if your H is going to marry the OW. None of us know what is going to happen and all we can do is keep on moving forward. I agree that the rose colored glasses are starting to clear up for you. You are going to see things in a whole new light and that’s a good thing.
I haven’t been on the boards for a few days and wanted to say something about the LBS’s starting in our own MLC. I really think that can happen, only the people that actually do the work on themselves see it before it becomes a problem. I thought I was heading down that road for a while and I thought everything out and looked deep. I think we all have to look at the big picture and determine what it is we exactly want in life. I think it could be easy to fall into that trap and I hope when folks really look deep they recognize the problem before it starts.
I am a true believer in going dark and removing myself from the drama. None of us deserve to be treated poorly in life. Going dark lets you rid yourself of all the negativity and lets you focus on what’s really important, yourself. Don’t ever worry about being the mean person, ask yourself if any of this was your idea?
You are doing great on your journey, keep on keeping on and you will see so much more.
Me 44 W 38 M 18 D 18 D 13 Bomb 10/21/2010 Divorced 7/19/2011 Just getting to the 7th inning!
