Thanks Cadet. She is not "out" now, but does want more distance than I do.

How will I know when she is all in measured against her limits versus against my desires? Is that a meaningful distinction?


Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015