Originally Posted By: rickb89

I can let her go, and can still support her. I need to be aware of when it's my needs getting in the way. And no one is saying I can't move on and satisfy them. I'm not a prisoner.


Wow. Bet you never thought a year ago you could get to this level of clarity.

I respect you do much for what you've gone through and how you've carried yourself with your head high. It is so admirable that you are making the hard choices for the sake of your kids- REAL Love!! They might never acknowledge it right now- since they are going through their own suffering process, but they will look back wen the dust has settled and see that their dad was next to them every step of the way. You should be very proud of yourself.

Like I told Mnky.... I'll bring tequila or tissues- whatever you need!


M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12