Hey Sad...just a tip, it's time to start a new thread. Once threads get to over 100 posts admins will lock them down to prevent corrupting the forum database.
You can start a new thread and link back to this one if people want to catch up on your sitch.
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD