Pulp I agree with what Truegritter has said. Sounds to me like she is just stringing you along. I'd bet my paycheck she knows the time limit you have to move back home with your son and she knows she is screwed if you do.
You have bent over backwards for your W and look where it has gotten you. IMHO you need to take your son and go home. You need to do what's best for you and your son and it certainly isn't the place you are at now. I think if you stay there you are going to be very sorry. Please protect yourself.
M 44 W 43 S 23 S 15 INILWY 9/11 Divorce Mediation started 3/13 June 30 the day W is moving out