We had another argument last night. I'm trying to detatch, but he was moping around yesterday and complaining about how "depressed" he was. It just made me angry. I told him that he was so depressed because he lost his little girlfriend, not that he hurt both me and the m. I told him that I can't feel pity for him (although I do, sometimes) and that I was too angry. He said that if I was so angry, what was the point of MC? I told him if he didn't want to go, fine, he knew where the door was. But I was at least TRYING to work on it. He told me I wasn't really working on it, that I hadn't done the homework. I told him that I did, that I had it written down in my purse if he wanted to read it. He said that I don't understand how much pain he was in. I told him I wasn't going to turn this into a competition as to how miserable each of us was.
He went out for a walk and I went to bed with my tablet and read a book. I also downloaded that ebook that was recommended in the previous post, but I couldn't really get into it, I was too angry. He came home later that night, apologized for what happened. I told him that he needed to take ownership for his depression and anxiety and take responsibility for getting therapy and going to the doctor. I told him that I CANNOT be his therapist, especially not now. He agreed.
We both feel a little better, but I'm trying to get back to DB'ing. We're meeting for lunch today. MC suggested we go out on a date and not talk about our problems. I plan on having a nice, light lunch. We'll see how well that turns out...
M:29 H:30 M:2.5 years T:13 years No kids EA:11/2011 PA:01/2012 Bomb:02/2012 H starting another EA, I had enough and we seperate: 03/08/2012 Trying to decide what I want for a change...