We at in very similar situation. I have Ben dealing with this for three years. However, unlike you I handsome ups and down with this past year being one huge down. My wife uses me for support an buying stuff. Hollyann really hit home in her responses; at least for me. Last week my wife asked me why I am not happy with Ty roommate setup since she is happy. Doesn't understand why we can't live together and do family stuff, but not have any romance. I told her I am miserable. He del I she love me, but does not have romantic feelings toward me. My opinion now I like yours. I am seriously considering leaving to give her real space. In my case I m being walked on.
