We at in very similar situation. I have Ben dealing with this for three years. However, unlike you I handsome ups and down with this past year being one huge down. My wife uses me for support an buying stuff. Hollyann really hit home in her responses; at least for me. Last week my wife asked me why I am not happy with Ty roommate setup since she is happy. Doesn't understand why we can't live together and do family stuff, but not have any romance. I told her I am miserable. He del I she love me, but does not have romantic feelings toward me. My opinion now I like yours. I am seriously considering leaving to give her real space. In my case I m being walked on.
Feel for you bro. Hope things get better for you. It looks like both of us need to stop using the I-pad on here. It is challenging to find the balance of being there for the kids, the family and my interactions with her.
She is on me today about the vacation, texted me a few times about the trip. Don't want to deal with her today.
Hey Sad...just a tip, it's time to start a new thread. Once threads get to over 100 posts admins will lock them down to prevent corrupting the forum database.
You can start a new thread and link back to this one if people want to catch up on your sitch.
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD