Crimson, thank you so much for sharing your story about your dinner with your W and S. Your words towards the end of your post were so profound and a great deal can be learned from just that one post. I'm excited for you and for the turn of events that are starting to happen. Well done!
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.