ok, so i could not stay at work and my boss is really concerned for me when i am left alone - wow this situation is taking its toll and it has only been 4 weeks.

well, h has not contacted me since last thurs and today is tues - what is that 5 dys and not even attempted to contact d. i understand ow had child with them this past weekend so when i read some things about being left behind, the h is literally replacing his family with ow's.

i am trying to see if h has some narcassistic tendencies as they are totally self consumed and care about no one else. we'll see how things go tomorrow - i would like to think h will contact me at some point to see how d and gc are at a min if not to ask about other things.

detaching when h does not contact should be an easy thing, right? the silence is deafening.....