Denial....its not just a river in Egypt...

[imthemom]

I totally get that Nb...and just the little bit of attention has done wonders for my badly bruised ego..:)
But my son had been devistated by what his D has done by bringing another person into his life. He hasnt even met her yet and is having such a hard time and has lost so much respect for him. I am in no hurry to add another person to the mix and to add more emotional damage on his back. He needs me totally committed to him right now and im not willing to let ANYTHING get in the way of that.
I have finally realized that I was fighting a loseing battle...my STBX is damaged far beyond what I realized and I dont want a person that is not willing to do the work to correct that anywere near me. We are in a no contact mode right now and I have never been more at peace...