breathe.

start there.

are these new emails? or ones he's just kept for some stupid reason? ( and any reason is stupid. )


the shock of finding them, of him admitting he kissed her is difficult and painful. but you're going to have to step back a little.

you need to separate this into the appropriate categories to apply the appropriate weight to it.



1. if they're old emails, its him being extremely stupid, and callous. he kept them for sentimental reasons and completely inappropiate.

BUT, thats the extent of it. stupidity. but not new. its not a new affair, nothing new has happened.


2. if the selling the tickets is new, then thats also stupid, he could have sold them to anyone.

BUT, its just a bad choice of who to sell them to. bad judgement but not cheating. its not an affair.


3. IF they're new since you've returned, then that's a different story. that's what you need to decide on.


her calling is bad, but doesn't prove he's having an affair.

take some time to get your head straightened back out before any more decisions or FB posts.

"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".