Busto,
You put in so much effort into saving your marriage the "right" way and I am really in awe of your strength. Your wife is a very lucky lady to have someone who cares as much as you to go through what you did. The length of time it took to get you there was not short and definitely was not easy and you persevered. That is very commendable in a day where society takes the easy road out and gives up. I am so impressed with how you handled yourself throughout your entire process. I just finished reading your entire thread today and it is quite amazing... Congratulations!


Me: 32 H: 32
M 9 yrs
#1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2
Bomb 8/12/11
H moved out 8/14/11
PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12
Got my own place 8/25/12
H & OW move in together 9/15/12
Still married.