When you have lunch, just listen. Listen hard.

Until he asks you what you think you both should do, make NO suggestions. Let him lead. He is going to have to do the work since he is the one who walked away so let him.

Have an answer prepared for when/if he asks what you think you should do. Do not go in unprepared.

T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!