Hi WTD. As always, welcome to the best place to be for the worst reason.

Yes... aliens... some more confused than others... the work is the same, whether MLC or not.

Best you can do right now, is to work on detaching yourself... distancing yourself... from his drama. It is easy to say... to do... not so much...

Cadet should be along in a bit to give you the whole "welcome, here's your reading assignments" post.

This is YOUR journey because "they" are on their own journey and you aren't invited... or rather... you can't "help" or fix it...