Rick, you're right. I was letting her actions get to me a bit.
I ended up responding to her text. We ended up having a series of text exchanges. All business, but reasonably friendly. We were able to cover baseball for my S, me wanting to take my S to Chicago on spring break, taxes, and boy scouts for my S. It was a pleasant enough exchange to the point where it diffused some of my anger. I am not nearly as ticked. It's almost like she DB'd me while I was trying to villify her into not wanting her back at all or ever.
As a side note. My S doesn't want to do scouts anymore, but we are making him finish the school year in scouts. I gave him a 5K challenge last night. If he can complete a 5K before the end of April, I will let him off the hook for scouts a month early. He has to run the whole thing. He's ready to start training.
