I'm in a very similar position to you, it's hard to go dark??
I don't know which is best?
If they don't see you, bit of mystery, etc, or they see you alot?
As long as your not contacting them, calling or texting, any contact is by them, then I don't see a problem with either?
You don't want to be totally available, but it does give them chance to see your changes
I honestly don't know which is best or has given the best results for people in the past, but I suppose every situation is different, so what works for you, may not work for someone else?
My situation is she wants me as a good friend,we both know we are attracted to each other, so in theory it should work out between us? But who knows!!!!