I am in CA also and am 4 months into our "6 month waiting period"...he has hired a lawyer and is fighting me on a divorce that HE wanted so it looks like its going to be a looooong ungly battle...sad ....
Me:48 H:42 M: 18 yrs. S: 9/1/09 due to alcoholic H D bomb: 9/9/11 OW confirmed 10/30/11 D papers filed 11/01/11 S15 S21(Special needs) S28
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