ITM, I know...it's beyond ridiculous. Especially given he freaked out that I filed and acted like I was rushing us towards a divorce outcome that he didn't want.

I'm actually not using much emotional energy on him. This was the last straw in my book. I don't want to deal with this anymore and I'm truly happier right now by myself and focused on the kids.

I'm very glad I filed for divorce (almost 2 weeks ago now)...in California we have a 6 month waiting period and I'm glad that's started.


M 44, H 46
D11, D9, D5
Married 12 years
PA confirmed 9/2011
I filed 3/2012
H moved out 7/2012