S15 and STBXH actually made the plan for the weekend and S15 was actually pretty excited about it. He had called his D a couple of days ago to see if they could go hunting or fishing during that weekend "just me and you" he had asked him. Then his D called and cancelled friday and said he had to work, but could pick him up Sat. night. Ive let him make his own decision about going to his Ds. His C has said its the only controll he has right now so give it to him. S15 has not met the ow yet...I know that is going to be a stressfull situation not just for him but for me to. Im trying to prepare myself for that. STBX has seriousley become a person that I would not even want to know. His lack of careing for his sons feelings and the total disrespect he has for me is old...and Im seeing him for what he really is..weak, and a coward.

As far as this "date"...I didnt commit to it and told him we would see. I dont know if Im interested in anything like that right now. Hes nice and we have a lot in common...so as far as Im concerned its nothing. And I have no problem letting him know that if I have to. I am not divorced and ive told my sons that married people dont date. thats just how I feel and I cant help that. Thanks Mish...I so appreciate your support!!!

Me:48 H:42
M: 18 yrs.
S: 9/1/09 due to alcoholic H
D bomb: 9/9/11
OW confirmed 10/30/11
D papers filed 11/01/11
S15 S21(Special needs) S28

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