Denial....its not just a river in Egypt...

[mishka422]

He's trying to poison your son now? That is so immature and seriously BAD parenting.

Question - Did S15 ask to go spend the night at his dad's or was it arranged without his input? He's old enough to decide if wants a R with his dad and if it is hurting him, and he doesn't want to go, please do not force him. I tried to force my son to spend time with his dad when he was with ow and my son hated it and was so angry every time he came home that it just became obvious that it was doing more harm.

Now, you know what I'm going to say about this date right? If you feel the slightest uncomfortable about it then you aren't ready to do this. Dating too soon can set you back months on your recovery. Don't say 'it's just dinner', because it isn't. No matter how many times you tell yourself it's just dinner with an interesting person it is still a date that comes with lots of stress.

Please be careful with your fragile heart and head. Don't force yourself into a situation that makes you uncomfortable just because you think you should. OK?