i know you wrote this to NLW - but i just wanted to add that i am so glad i came across this thread and read what you wrote - it helps me so much, to gain another layer of perspective on my own situation and to take one more tiny step forward.
thanks zig
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"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"