@Oldtimer... just curious, above you said this,
Quote:
She is not your friend,
why isn't she my friend? and/or why can't she be?

Excluding DB concepts... and the need for mystery, etc... why can't someone's XW/XH be a friend? I'm not saying right now it's necessarily healthy to be friends, but what excludes that from happening?


Married 6 together 8
Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both
SS12, SD10, S6
Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann)
W moved out: 2/18/12
D final: 11/12/12
Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD