Was sick all day today, caught whatever bug S had last week. Had all the kids tonight which was fun. Granted I spent the weekend with SS, but missed SD terribly as I hadn't seen her for more than a few minutes in about a week. Missed my S too, but I'd seen him as recently as Friday.
S had his final wrestling practice tonight. His birthday is tomorrow. We are having some food, cake, and presents tomorrow night at W's house with her family and my family. I'm honestly not sure what to think. Part of me thinks this is more "together" than W and I should have right now. At the same time having mom and dad together for his birthday party is what my S wants and what his school counselor and my C recommend. I won't stay super-long though anyway as I have a board meeting to get to.
The handoff tonight went well. I was able to keep it much shorter than the past few. Simply shared some logistics about the kids, confirmed things for tomorrow's birthday stuff, and left. Maybe three minutes tops... as I went to the door I got "oh, you have to leave right away?" Yep... I don't believe she really wanted me to stay except that she wanted to be able to talk about some stuff that's bothering her and the day she had.
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD
