Sias, thanks for your honest feedback. I have very little anger towards my H these days, I see him as truly diseased. I do however have anti-DB thoughts and strategies of how to cure him of his disease. Right now I think I need to push him over the cliff. This honky dory separated world we are living in is not reality.
He uses our car all the time like its his. He stays longer when he comes over to drop the girls off. One day I will remarry or have a boyfriend and we will not want to hang out with H.
My father/lawyer is starting to get into a C agreement with his lawyer (I am crying writing these words) and my father wants to be the bad guy. I am just gonna say that my father wants to make sure me & the girls are protected, we can continue with this easy going custody arrangement for now but if something goes wrong then we have this formal document as a safety plan. Also who knows how our lives will change if our future significant others will have kids and then we have to negotiate that whole mess.
I just love these boards. It saves me during the day when I start feeling lonely cause I cant call my H to share the events of the day, that I have you guys:)
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13
