Originally Posted By: Truegritter
Originally Posted By: exquisite
The behavior seems worst then ever. Will it keep escalating or will they find peace one day?


Who knows? Only if they choose to deal with the crisis.

I think it moves along a continuum depending on the extent and duration of the abuse.

They are very good I believe at hiding it until they can't any longer.

They have always known something is not quite right...

Best to let them live it out and get out of harm's way.

Any other choice IMO is destructive to yourself.


This is the hard part to beat into out heads. I feel rather destroyed. And I know I can't go on feeling destroyed. There is a better world for me. Maybe when I become the person only a fool would leave I will become smart enough not to take him back unless he also becomes a person only a fool would leave.

Thank you all for continuing to post things that are worth reading!


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