hope you love her, cause you're stuck with her now

[MichelleLT]

I think I am going for mostly a closure letter from a strategy perspective if nothing else. Want to keep it a TINY bit open, but only the teensiest tiniest bit.

Trying to convince him to work on things now will backfire, I'm about 99% sure, as he is very stubborn. So it was not necessarily intended to open a dialogue. More to lay some stuff out there and set some boundaries. If it scares him into some doubts and second thoughts, all the better. But any desire he has to work on things is going to be followed by my question, so when is the counseling scheduled for? I'm not messing around at this point LOL.