MLC? Feels like I'm living in a time warp! I year ago Nov, my H accepted a job promotion. They needed him immediately - he went on (3 hrs away) while the boys and I stayed behind to sell the house. He was getting impatient and told me he would give the house away if we had to. The boys and I needed to get here soon so we could be a family again ( told me this in June 2011) House finally sold and we moved into our new one in late Aug. In the beginning, he came home every weekend. Then it was every two weeks- then we traded off with visits. This went on from nov 2010-aug 2011. Nearly a year! Looking back - he was only home on the weekends for a month or so. Since we moved into this small neighborhood, my neighbors have met him ONCE, Halloween night. I noticed shortly afterwards that he was distant physically. I asked him about it and he blamed it on work. After another weekend out of town,I questioned him about never being home on the weekends and told him we needed to talk. He agreed. When he got home that night, I wanted to talk about spending more time together - that's when he told me we wasn't happy and had not been happy for years! I was shocked! Shortly after i found a receipt where he purchased a pair of boots and a cross necklace - I have yet to get that necklace. When questioned, he told me he bought it for a friend of a friend. WTH! I pushed H into a love and respect class on the Friday and sat before valentines day. He was out of town and came back on valentines day. I had romantic plans for us...once the boys went to bed...he recited the dreaded words "I love you, I'm just not IN love with you" and told me he would move or Friday when the boys left for school. I had no words- just tears and feelings of disbelief. WHO IS THIS PERSON. A few days later, on our credit card were two airline tickets to Cancun! I called airlines and they gave me the names on the tickets! One for H and other for OW! I was mad, hurt , confused- just to name a few! When I called him on this- he DENIED..again! Said he was golfing there and her and her friends wanted a vacation. He told me "we r not staying in same room" i was speechless. Even received two text messages that were meant for her! And get this, when I ask about it he gets furious. He even spent the night at the house when he knew we were gone and went thru my emails( inbox and those I sent out) even did a search to see what I'd been googling! He called me that night and reemed me for being curious about OW! He told me when he moved out he had every intension of coming back..,but I ruined it! It's almost comical! He is so angry and I have no idea where it is coming from! The man I married would never talk to me or treat me the way "this man" does!He still won't admit she exist.....swears he cancelled the trip weeks ago...yet no credit on cc! The trip was this weekend...needless to say- I barely survived! Help please!
