yeah i know she told me she thinks its just as bad as cheating but i think thats rediculous.
as for the OM i know nothing and i might be a long while before i find anything out since she is keeping it very secret.
today she called me and she was pissed about the savings account. not the way i wanted our first conversation to go after not talking to her for weeks. but i guess that was my fault for taking half out anyways but id rather be safe than sorry. she asked me again if im going to sign the papers and i told her i dont know what i want to do yet. she also made a comment about how I am the one who cant have an adult conversation.
my sitch is so ugly. im seriously just done with it i really dont see this ending in any other way other than divorce. the only dicision i am having trouble with is do i sign them or do i force her to take me to court to get the divorce?