BM- I think you're responses to him were great. You didn't let him bully you into the custody agreement- YOU have the girls' best interest at heart. I hope that you can figure out an arrangement with the C.... and I tend to agree with your dad, that a consistent schedule for the girls' is better for their sense of security.
As far as the OW, I understand how maddening it is to not know for sure. I still get sick to my stomach thinking about the possibility of H and OW- I really have to squash the urge to slash her tires!
I hear (read) you becoming stronger with each post
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12