if you do decide to stay and work on things, you will know the decision was NOT made out of fear of "change" OR unrealistic financial fears.
Exactly. I want to applaud you for getting your ducks in a row and taking care of yourself through this crisis. That alone shows that you will get through this, no matter what. You have the ability and resourses inside yourself to make the right decisions, even though it won't be easy by a long shot. I feel like we all slog through this and then one day wake up and notice that it's not such a slog anymore, and that we are happy. You will get your new (better) chapter, Autumn.
Mimi
M:37; H:37; M:10 years;T:13 years;no kids. Bomb ("I love you, but don't feel things for you I should":1/08/12 Separated (H living with various friends:1/18/12 Separated (H rented his own apartment:3/4/12