I so agree with you forward. I did contribute to the marriage problems, but nothing deserving of cheating, lying, betraying, abandoning, and emotional torture.

You know, I have been reading about bi-polar, passive aggressive, borderline, histrionic personalities for the last couple of years. Why is it that my ex has almost every symptom of all of these?

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11