Yes, if she told him to stop, I agree. If she said that she wasn't into it and didn't think she'd like it, then he's a creepy inconsiderate lover. But if she did not consent to it, it is rape. No doubt. I didn't get the impression that was the case, but it could have been.
CV -- if that was the case, if you asked him to stop and he didn't, then, for me, that would be it. I'd be done, no looking back. Gone. Today. No do overs.
The thing to gain here is how to empower oneself to make and own choices that work for one sexually. For me, that would ALWAYS involve zero-tolerance of any sexual assault. End of story.
But, there IS in other cases space to own one's choices and change them to enforce better boundaries.
