Together Since We Were 15...Now Piecing

[MrBond]

I believe I called this earlier. That's why I was recommending that you not rush into R so quickly. People going through R go through a period of false starts. Your situation is perfectly natural. The key is to remember this and keep up your DB efforts that got him to come back.

If he is serious about getting back together with you, he needs to be totally transparent and see to what your needs are. You have a right to check up on him. He has to be able to soothe your fear of him messing around. After all he told you he was interested in this OW so you have a right to know if he's still messing around. NEVER apologize for how you feel.

"I have to remember how much I love him and want this to work,"

Wrong. HE has to do that.