Where to next?

[MichelleLT]

First, sorry to hear you aren't feeling well! Everything is blooming here too, so I'm sure these next couple weeks will be loads of fun.

Second, ditto to WII on this:

Yes indeed, by speaking up you told him that you believe you're worth more than what you're getting. That's pretty important. Why should our partners care more for our needs than we do?

And so glad to hear you are seeming some small changes.

Maybe your next goal should be not to let things go so long before the next conversation, i.e. start asking for things periodically.