He texted a short while ago re: our insurance so he can call a therapist too. I responded but kept it professional. He then got personal and asked if I ate, and told me please don't forget to eat. I haven't responded.
"Gee, honey, it's not really my job to make you feel good about your affair."
(and no, don't text or tell him that, but geeez!!)
He's trying to "white-knight" you now. Now that HIS very actions have wounded you, he's trying to act like your savior. Blccccch.