i'm can so relate with the having expectations thing...it's like just when i've reached a new level of detachment, H starts getting nicer again, and then I start thinking things are better and having more expectations. such a vicious cycle! its so great to see this dynamic spelled out though, isnt it? it really helps me get things in perspective in terms of being prepared for the next time...trying to NOT have expectations and being to tied up to what H is thinking/doing/not doing, etc...
Originally Posted By: ptcrussell
Wow.....accuray the pursuer/pursued info above described my H to the "T" and it echoed his many comments when leaving. More importanty, like mncwng, my H is being nicer and it has made me have expectations again...textbook! Is this from one of the books you mentioned?
Thanks again for your time in sharing it with us "newbies."
Thinking of you mcnwng...we are all in this together!
