Originally Posted By: Valeska19
I guess I need to remember that if she wanted me to be part of her life... She would fight for me.

*sigh*


Thanks for this. Something that I struggle to remember, too. When postive things happen in the R, I am tempted to think that my h might want back into our M. But that thinking leads only to pain. If a WAS wants to be back with us, they will let us know in no uncertain terms. You sound somewhat sad, but determined in your post, which sounds like an emotionally appropriate place to be at this point. Good luck.

Mimi


M:37; H:37; M:10 years;T:13 years;no kids.
Bomb ("I love you, but don't feel things for you I should":1/08/12
Separated (H living with various friends:1/18/12
Separated (H rented his own apartment:3/4/12