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Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s Ichrus #2229834 03/12/12 05:41 PM
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Crimson Member C Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 1,326	Hey there, Ichrus. Responding to your post on my thread. To be honest with you, life actually got a little BETTER for me once my W left. Don't get me wrong, it hurt like hell and I still miss her being there - but the awkwardness and overall lack of oxygen in the house was cured. Also, and believe me when I say this made a difference for me, you HAVE to stay positive, upbeat and as happy as you can be around your W. Is it a TOTAL act at times? Yep. It was for me - but over time it actually became kind of real. Re-read the "Act as if" portion of DR again - it helped me a lot. I think once my wife thought I was "OK" and "moving on" it really made a difference in my situation. Pulling back helped a lot, too - ergo, moving out isn't ALL bad for your situation. Keep posting, and good luck. Crimson

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Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	Ichrus	12/11/11 05:49 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	Ichrus	12/12/11 02:33 AM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	brenalim	12/12/11 08:09 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	FA	12/12/11 09:09 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	Ichrus	12/13/11 08:38 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	Ichrus	01/18/12 07:58 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	~ kd ~	01/23/12 04:33 AM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	BeingMe	01/23/12 09:31 AM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	~ kd ~	01/23/12 03:01 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	25yearsmlc	02/22/12 07:29 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	Ichrus	02/22/12 08:16 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	Ichrus	03/08/12 07:51 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	Ichrus	03/12/12 06:17 AM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	Ichrus	03/12/12 04:35 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	Crimson	03/12/12 05:41 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	BeingMe	03/13/12 08:32 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	Ichrus	03/19/12 08:59 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	MrBond	03/19/12 09:08 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	Ichrus	03/19/12 11:16 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	MrBond	03/20/12 12:11 AM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	BeingMe	03/20/12 07:38 AM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	BeingMe	03/20/12 07:42 AM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	breakdownbill	03/20/12 09:46 AM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	Ichrus	03/20/12 06:51 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	Ichrus	03/23/12 07:34 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	Norfolkdumpling	03/23/12 09:40 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	Ichrus	03/25/12 04:57 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	Ichrus	03/27/12 11:32 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	2thepoint	03/28/12 09:44 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	Ichrus	05/10/12 11:18 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	25yearsmlc	05/11/12 01:49 AM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	25yearsmlc	05/11/12 04:07 AM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	Ichrus	05/11/12 06:05 AM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	25yearsmlc	05/11/12 08:30 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	Ichrus	05/11/12 10:49 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	Ichrus	05/24/12 06:35 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	Rick1963	05/24/12 06:47 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	Ichrus	05/28/12 05:59 AM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	peringo	05/28/12 12:45 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	BeingMe	05/28/12 07:21 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	Ichrus	02/15/12 06:40 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	BeingMe	02/15/12 09:31 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	BeingMe	02/15/12 09:34 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	Ichrus	02/16/12 04:35 PM
Re: Brand New here, my story, my ?'s	Ichrus	02/22/12 06:36 PM

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