Indecision and the affair continues (part 3)

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Update...so, D11 lost her cell phone over the weekend. She went on to my ipad to track it...and guess whose phone she tracked? "Mom, why is Dad's phone in Mexico?" Yep. Texted him and told him the kids had tracked him. He had told me he had "plans" this past weekend so I wasn't overly surprised. But, he's been all about being honest with each other...so the fact that he went to Mexico with OW is a little different than "having plans".

He told me to tell the kids he was at a meeting. I responded via text and said I wasn't going to cover for him. (In reality, I ended up telling the kids he was in Mexico with friends...)

This was all actually good verification that I'm going down the right path for me. Just ridiculous.

There was also a tragic death in his family this weekend and his dad called him in Mexico crying. H texted me about it. So, I think between him knowing our kids know he was in Mexico and this death...he couldn't have had the best weekend ever.

He comes back Friday. I am going to let him know he can't stay in the house. (In the end, he may stay in the guest room...because he's only home for a day and a half and he needs to swap out his clothes, etc.)

I got Dobson's book Tough Love this weekend...very good and very fitting for where I am.