Hang in there Ro...DBing techniques don't always seem like the logical thing to do, but obviously, they work. I will say that I know of MANY people on this board who would change sitch's with you in a heartbeat! Reading what you post, it really seems as if your H wants to be with you. He is seeing the changes you are making and is liking it. It could be that he isn't sure if this is real, therfore, keeping the OW on the side (note, SHE is the side, you are the forefront). Just keep doing what you are doing. I am proud of you!
