I went to NC Saturday morning for my aunt’s housewarming. It was nice to be with my family. And the weather was GORGEOUS!
Talked/texted with H a few times. He spent Saturday going to the grocery store and cleaning, and then when I got back on Sunday he had dinner ready – spaghetti.
We hung out last night, watched some TV, and I caught him up on some family stuff. He was being extra helpful - whenever I said I needed to get up and get something, he would get it. Or ask me if I needed/wanted something when he got up for a snack or whatever. The acting like Ward Cleaver is starting to annoy me. Not sure if it’s just OW or if I’m mad that he waited until now to become the model husband (outside of his A).
Had lots of time to think this weekend. I’m still getting the advice that I should confront H from some people, and from others, not to say anything just yet. I don’t know what I should be doing. I mean, I’m trying to follow my DB Coach’s advice, and I will say I’m getting what look like positive results, but not sure if that’s getting me on my way to a R with H. Granted, I know it will take time, but what is MY time limit?
For now (today anyway), I am going to follow my coach's advice. Still got lots of thinking to do.
